How to tell when a man or a woman is playing you

written by: Alex Kravchenko; article published: year 2010, month 05;

In: Root » Recreation and sport » Dating and relationships

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Finding your life partner is not one of the easiest things to accomplish since people are too different and their intentions are not always easily understood. There are those who are sincerely looking for love. These people are honest with themselves and with others. Most of the time they are pretty much straight-forward and don't hide their intentions. Other times you may come across a person, a man or a woman, whose intentions are very different from those described above. These people are players and the game they play is called "other people's feelings". Since nobody of us likes when someone is messing up with our feelings, it is important that our "radar" is switched on to position the signs of their game. So, how do you tell when someone, a man or a woman, is playing you? What are those signs?

You are being played with if they:

- never show up in public with you especially in the neighbourhood they live;

- don't introduce you to their friends or relatives;

- try to avoid conversations about family or close friends;

- are never available for you in the moments they are most needed and it happens quite often;

- never invite you to their place, but always go to yours;

- tell you they love you way too early;

- try to get you into bed too early;

- tell you that you can call them only at certain hours or can never call them;

- always call you at night or at strange hours;

- hide their cell phones;

- never return calls even though they say they will;

- never accept calls when you are around;

- always delete dialed and/or received call history;

- don't share with you their home/work number even though you have been in a relationship with them for more than a month;

- always want you to pay for everything;

- suddenly disappear and/or become unavailable;

- come to see you only at night time;

- call you honey, baby, sweetie etc. but never your real name;

- are more interested in your body than your brain;

- are caught lying too often;

- seem pretty much distant;

- are not romantic at all;

- get mad when you question them;

- check out other men/women when they are with you;

- are always too busy to see you or fit you into their schedule;

These are the most common signs of someone playing you. Please, don't forget that there are some exceptions to the rule. Believe it or not, we all subconsciously know when someone is playing us and if it happens with you, you should have enough courage to face the reality, even if it means your relationship may come to an end.

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